Sunday, 6 May 2012

NAZAR UNKI BURI PARDA MAIN KARU??


NAZAR UNKI BURI PARDA MAIN KARU??

With rising rape cases everywhere in India,
this is a most common question that occurs in a girl/woman’s
mind while she’s in an empty parking lot
or in an empty room
or in a restroom
or ANYWHERE????
Because they are nowhere safe!!!

Rape is the only crime in which victim becomes the accused
                                                                                    - Freda Adler

The above lines seems so true when people blames a girl
in rape cases.
First of all of those who say girls should dress up correctly
answer me if a person or a group of persons had thought of rape in their mind
will a salwaar Kurta or a mini skirt makes a difference?
Absolutely no!!!
So why girls should be asked to dress right?
And right what?
Should we have a dress code for being raped??
“The girl with this dress code has more probability than the other with that dress code of being raped!!!”
Are we insane???
And can we guarantee “no rape condition” even if a girl is wearing a “burkha”?
Boys can dress what they want>>
why can’t girls????
In a situation, where boys can even walk in boxers on the road,
so don’t girls even deserve a minimum freedom of wearing what they want??

Blaming girls for rape cases is like
a non vegetarian blaming the chicken on his plate
for being so convincing to eat that he had to eat it!!!!!!

And blaming makes the things worse
trying to understand the mindset of girl
the girl who is being raped is recovering from a trauma
and we are blaming her
when we should be supporting her!!!!
 And what happens????
Girl goes home
crying for the things she is not even responsible even a bit
feels the worse of a helpless fellow,
taking back an instance that will pinch her whole life,
Being transformed into someone who can never be reverted back,
Being converted into someone who will now always be afraid of the dark and loneliness????
And loses her identity, loses herself!!!!!

And next what......
She lodges F.I.R
which will catch the convict “IF SHE’S LUCKY”
but does catching the convict revert back the things for her
will it give her the same life she lived before?

It’s not just about stopping guys from doing so
it’s about giving girls their sense of FREEDOM!!
A sense of NORMAL LIFE!!
A sense of SECURITY!!!
A sense of RESPECT!!
Courtesy-times of India
Title courtesy-Delhi slut walk